17 years ago today I was blessed and honored to marry my high school sweetheart Candace. At that time we had already been dating six years. But if it weren’t for a few of my friends, this day that we celebrate may have never taken place.
During my junior year of high school I had seen Candace roaming the halls, and mentioned to a couple friends that I had seen this really cute girl. Of course they told me I should ask her out, or at the very least talk to her. Being somewhat of an introvert, I said “no way”. Six months passed and I came to find out that she was in my english class. Again I mentioned it to some friends, but I couldn’t work up the courage to talk to her. It was then I think my friends got tired of me talking about this girl.
So, one day before english class I was cornered by a few buddies who let me know that if I didn’t talk to her that day I would have to answer to them, and endure unknown pain! (Thank you John Serrano)
It took all that I had to muster up the nerve to talk to her. I asked her to lunch, and the rest is history. BTW: First official date: Going to see Beverly Hills Cop. Not two or three, one! Yes we are that old.
Needless to say getting married to Candace was one of the most important decisions I have ever made, and one of the best. I could pull the Jerry Maguire line and say she “completes me” (gag), but I would rather say she challenges me, calms me, loves me, supports me, and endures me in a way that is unique to Candace. She is unflappable, compassionate, thoughtful, loyal, and prayerful.
Candace, I am so grateful that God put us in each other’s lives. You are an awesome mom, loving wife, and a “walking the talk” Christian. I love you!!!
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